Over the last one and half years of pandemic, our company had an opportunity to work with over 10,000 people from across the globe through group coaching sessions and training programs.
We witnessed a variety of concerns ranging from lack of face to face interaction, no emotional connect, social challenges, uncertainty and anxiety during these discussions. Majority of people are experiencing symptoms like lack of sleep, irritability, jitteriness with friends and family. Leading to a general feeling of melancholy around us. It has impacted our overall health and productivity and is also leading to burn-out at work and home.
The stress is not just about the pandemic but also about the future of work, education, day to day challenges and slowly it’s seeping into work and family causing distress.
Work from home culture has made professional & personal boundaries: blurry and fluid, we appear at work without makeup, kids walk into the calls or glimpses of all that is happening at home behind our back on the camera. From corporate wear we have transitioned to casuals and from returning home after work we continue to exchange emails and chats post work hours.
Is this the “new normal?” Going by the current scenario, seems like this might continue for some more time till the scientists find the way to close this pandora’s box.
What we need is to build skills and learn ways to live in this “new normal.”
Here are some key things which can help build a happy workplace and home environment:
1. Communicate : Listen with thoughtful attention not just rushing to provide solution but to connect and encourage. Involve yourself – not just with ears, but eyes and heart too. Even on a screen we can build that connection by looking into the eyes, modulating our tone and turning off distractions. Authentic connections will help break the barriers of communication.
Share your vulnerability by expressing what are you doing to manage stress. Give your real life examples at work and at home, for example one of the leader shared with the team how he is struggling to make a conversation with his teenager son, whereas someone shared about keeping the phone out of the bedroom at night or taking therapy sessions. Don’t underestimate the positive impact that your story can create on others.
What has worked with you when it comes to expressing emotions?
2. Pause : The best way to deal with all the noises in your head, sometimes judging, sometimes criticising and mostly complaining is by learning to pause, meditate or being mindful. The pause gives an opportunity to stop, reflect and then respond instead of overwhelm and immediate reaction. To begin with just become aware of the words you speak, pause and take a breath before you respond in a meeting or during a conversation.
What are the techniques that help you pause?
3. Define Boundaries : Pre-covid we had a structure to our day. WFH has diluted that to the extent that some people log in at work sitting on the bed or right after waking up. Designing our day will help in creating work-life boundaries. Like getting dressed, wearing perfume or waving bye to your colleagues as we end the day. Switching off from work and doing an activity like walking will help the mind to differentiate between online and offline hours. The same applies to students and home makers. We all need time for self care and rejuvenation along with the work we do.
What rituals you have that define work and play boundaries for you?
4. Training and Coaching sessions : It’s more important than ever to talk about uncertainties, stress, work life balance and wellness aspects at work and home. There are trainers, coaches and facilitators available for every budget. Find what works for you and your organisation. Offer trainings, programs, resources to deal with stress, build resilience and work life balance.
What resources have you used/ or want to use that can help you create a better work life integration?
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Prioritise your health, Prioritise your wellbeing and prioritising your happiness sends a powerful message to those around you.
You matter, your health and happiness matters.
Simone Biles courageous choice has definitely created an awareness of stepping back to focus on mental health. We are aware that even when things open up, it may not return to normal so let’s make happiness our number one priority in the new normal, use the time at home constructively and use this opportunity to turn adversity into a positive challenge.